January 24, 2018
It’s finally complete. It hasn’t been signed yet but I just wanted to get everyone’s opinion. I worked hard on this contract and had input from my husband, of course, as well as some of my AWESOME followers and fellow denial friends. The punishments may not be as strict as some of you would prefer, but this contract had to be tailored to my needs and my desires. I am not a masochist so punishments involving pain would not have worked for me. I prefer mental punishments. I love the psychological aspect of all of this! THAT’S what gets my juices flowing! Anyway…here it is. What do y’all think? Please forgive the format errors. Tumblr really messed up the copy and paste and I don’t see where it’s possible to add a document. I can add a GIF, text, audio file…etc but NO document. (Yes, I’m feeling a bit technologically challenged and a lot frustrated)
Orgasm Denial Contract
I, quean-heather, in recognition of the
negative impact orgasms have on my sustained mental health, my relationship
with my husband, and my overall well-being, as well as my desire to be a good
girl, hereby give written notice that I will and do relinquish complete and
permanent control of my orgasms to my husband, John aka swingeguy. I trust that
he knows what is best for me in all areas of my life, but especially anything
related to orgasms. I understand that orgasms are for men and that it is my
responsibility to always be aroused in the event that my husband, or any man of
his choosing, would want to me use for their sexual pleasure.
Before the composing of this contract, I had
written my goal of having no orgasm until March 1. My husband wants me to honor
the original contract because he encourages me to reach all of my goals in
life. I understand that my husband may, at any time, decide that do or do not
need an orgasm. I understand that my husband may determine that I am more proficient
as a wife when I am completely denied orgasms and may choose to never allow me
release again. I understand that my sexual frustration, achiness, and neediness
pleases and arouses my husband, and therefore, I will embrace those feelings of
longing for an orgasm.
I pledge that I will not have an orgasm of any
kind, whether it be accidental, ruined, or full without written (messenger,
text, chatting) or verbal permission from my husband. I pledge that I will edge myself to the point
right before orgasm for a minimum of 30 minutes daily. When time permits, I
will edge for up to 6 hours daily. Due to my hectic schedule, I will be
responsible for my edging sessions, but I must inform my husband before edging
to ensure it is in my best interest at that time. Should I fail to honor my commitments or
violate the terms of this contract, I will immediately notify my husband and
request punishment, as defined by, but not limited to, those defined below.
Punishments
A period of no touch for a minimum of 1 day but
not to extend 3 days based of the severity of the offence. Severity will be
determined by John (Swingeguy)
A period of abstinence from any sexual contact
from John, including, but not limited to, vaginal, oral, and anal intercourse;
clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation through the use of John’s hands,
dildos, vibrators, or any other sexual adult toy. Length of time not to exceed
one week. This will be determined by the severity of the offense. Severity will
be determined by John (Swingeguy)
A period of edging with non-dominant hand only,
no toys to be used during punishment period. This punishment to be used for
minor offenses. Length of time to be determined by John (Swingeguy)
A period of abstinence from John’s cum (semen).
I will be denied the pleasure of John’s cum going down my throat, being shot
deep in my vaginal or anal cavities, or being deposited on any part of my body.
I will watch as he ejaculates and then be forced to use a towel to clean him.
If semen comes in contact with my skin at all, a more serious punishment will
then be implemented.
The application of lidocaine or orajel to the
clitoris 10 minutes
prior
to edging
or intercourse of any kind. Must be reapplied every 30 minutes. This punishment
may last a period of up to 3 days based on the severity of the offense.
Severity to be determined by John (Swingeguy).
A period of forced orgasms, not to exceed 60 minutes
in duration, during which time, I must beg not to have an orgasm.
The implementation of a 2 minute edging session
with a 30 minute break between sessions. This punishment can be used up to a
period of 1-3 days, depending on severity of the offense. Severity to be
determined by John (Swingeguy)
Writing 100 times, “I am nothing but a
worthless fuck toy. Worthless fuck toys don’t have orgasms.” 9.
Degrading words written on my skin with
permanent marker, which is covered by clothing. Words to be chosen by John
(Swingeguy) A period of forced touching without being
allowed to edge. I will not be allowed to edge until I have circled my clit
with my finger a total of 1,000 – 3,000 times based on severity of offense. I
must count out every completed circle. No edging allowed until the completion
of this task. John (Swingeguy) will determine severity. 11.
A period of being denied the use of a bra or
undies while in public. This punishment will last for a period of no longer
than 1 week.
12.
John (Swingeguy) may, at his discretion and at
any time, during any sexual intercourse or sexual playtime, implement the use
of clothespins attached to any of Heather’s body parts if he feels she is
getting too close to having an orgasm. He may also bite her, hard enough to
leave a bruise and hard enough to stop Heather from going over the edge.
The above punishments may also be given should
John (Swingeguy), feel, for any reason that I have misbehaved or been
disrespectful in any fashion. This will be determined by John (Swingeguy).
Failure to abide by and complete above
punishments will result in additional punishments.
Signed, ___________________________ Date: ___________________
Quean-heather
(Wife of John and Say No To The O Member, Good Girl, and Sister in
Denial)
Signed, ____________________________ Date: ___________________
John
(Swingeguy)
(Husband of quean-heather and holder of her orgasms)
The terms of this contract will continue for 90 days, ending on
April 23, 2018. Terms will be reevaluated at that time and a new, more
permanent contract will be signed at that time.